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Certified Sex Therapist T, shares something worse than being “ghosted” and 10 warning signs!!!
Certified Sex Therapist T, talk to you about situationships and how to navigate through them.
6/29/18 UPDATED: The song actually is not about a vibrator (bummer I know) BUT imagine if it was? SO…. You may or may not have heard (the rumors) that our beloved “Electric Slide” originally entitled “Electric Boogie” by songwriter Neville … Continue reading
Raise your hand, or nod your head if you have used lube, or are open to using lube. Lubricant (lube) is a product use to assist or enhance a sexual experience by adding extra “wetness” to the genitals. If you … Continue reading
Picture this: It’s 5 o’clock in the morning on any given Sunday. Last night you went on eventful date with your girl. Come home, bam amazing sex! The hair pulling, booty smacking, infinite amount a lube around kinda sex that … Continue reading
Relearn Your Body Take the time to learn what makes you feel good, mentality, emotionally, physically and sexually. If you are not a skin hungry person that’s ok, and if you need to be touched all the time that’s ok … Continue reading
With the topic being hot in the news and social media right now, I wanted to share an intro guide to Analingus (oral sex that involves mouth/lips/tongue to the anus), commonly known as “Tossing Salad, Rimming and Eating The Groceries”. … Continue reading
Unless You TRULY Want To!!!
Raise your hand, if you’ve been in a situation where your partner who had a penis, wanted to receive your golden throat, without giving back in return? Did you begrudgingly agree, thinking you would get yours next time only for it happen over and over again leaving you frustrated (maybe dryer) and wanting more? “They” say doing the same thing over and over, and expecting a different result is the definition of insanity. If that’s the case girl are you crazy? If giving only and not receiving does not get you off (for some it does), why are you doing it? Sure you love and care about your partner, but how much do you love yourself? Would you get into a cold car in the middle of winter and expect to just take off? Of course not, so why treat a car better than your own body?
YOU DESERVE PROPER FOREPLAY
You deserve to be able to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your needs before, during, and after all sexual activity. If you feel like you can’t have that conversation with them, then ask yourself, do they really deserve your body? You’ve got to love yourself first before you can adequately give love to anyone else, especially in the bedroom. Trust me if your partner is aware that a kiss here, a rub there a nibble somewhere else, will make the sex wetter, longer, LOUDER 9 times out of 10 they will be on board with, or at least attempt in your favor. If they flat out refuse, then I ask again, do they really deserve your body? You deserve proper foreplay and you deserve all the pleasure you desire. If you can put your mouth on that penis, you can use that same mouth to voice your desires. Sex should never be one sided. T told you so.